Yesterday, the hospice team placed Mom on "continuous care", which is used when they believe that she has had a worsening in her condition. This was prompted by a visit from them at our request because Mom seemed less responsive than usual.
This "continuous care" is initially set up for two to three days, but will remain in effect longer if the hospice people believe it to be necessary.
Mom's nurse did pull my Dad aside this morning and tell him that Mom is in her decline now.
That's certainly not news to anyone, but I have to say, it is still hard to hear.
Chronicling my mother's battle with lung cancer.
Mike and all,
ReplyDeleteAs you say, not unexpected, but still hard to hear. My prayer is that she will be able to be as comfortable as possible with the help of the hospice team. These days will be hard for all of you and I pray that you will be comforted by the fact that you have done everything you could do for her. She is blessed to have such a loving family and we have all been blessed to have had her for a friend.
Blessings,
Nancy
Dear Mike and James,
ReplyDeleteI know it is hard on you, more so than her friends. We keep Norma and James in our prayers and thank you so much for keeping us informed. I know it is hard for you to write these notes.
Dee and I are still in Colorado, so tell your dad that we are thinking of them.
Love Saundra
Yes, Mike, you are right. This is not news to any of us but it is indeed hard to hear. Tonight I sat in our backyard and counted stars. I couldn't help but think one of them has your mother's name. She has been a star in many of our lives, adding warmth, light, and knowledge. Thank you for continuing to share with us. Love, Pat and Kathy
ReplyDeleteAlthough I have moved away, I am still with you in spirit, Norma, James, and Mike. She has been a shining star in my life, too. May her remaining time be peaceful.
ReplyDeleteI am remembering Norma, James, and your entire family in all my prayers. Norma has been one of my favorite people and I will always remember her positive influence in everyone's lives. Love, Kenita
ReplyDeleteAs you said, "decline" is very difficult word to hear or even associate with Norma. Thinking and praying for your family.
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